Wednesday, October 7, 2009

Romance is a Part of Dating

Romantic memories about our romantic lives are important to all of us. I worked out once that in my adult life I had actually been single 14.5 years out of my first 20 adult years. It never actually felt like that but when I added up the time that I had really been with people in a proper sexual relationship, it was 6.5 years in 20 that I hadn’t been single. I am sure some people who have been married for 20 years could say the same thing. I always believed that it was better to be alone, than lonely within a relationship and I think that kept me grounded.


To be sure, I had had some great relationships beginning when I was 17 or 18 and occurring intermittently through my 20’s and 30’s and none of them I regretted (well maybe one more recently). I had always felt like relationships were easy to begin if I wanted and dates were never very hard to find if I made the effort. So really I look back on my teenage years, my twenties and my thirties as busy decades of dating and relating. After adding up the figures above I was amazed therefore to find out just how long I have been single. So why do I think that I have notbeen single so much?
Well the answer lies in my romantic memories and how I use them. If one has had some nice relationship experiences then they can sustain you for years afterwards. They are like love-food that helps keep you stable and hopeful. The memory of nice times in relationships is something that can be drawn on and reused over and over again. I rarely relate to how my relationships ended, though I do remember how. But during solitary spells in my life I have found that thinking back to when I was together with a certain person provides an underlying strength of character.
Romantic memories are crucial for single people because they re-enforce belief and a sense of optimism. Often I am asked if I believe in love at first sight or true love or Mr. Right or the perfect mate and I do. I do because I am a dreamer. I do because it makes the world a better and nicer place to be. I do because I choose to believe that relationships can be solid and stable and trusting and warm and comfortable as well as sexy, passionate and dramatic. Without romantic memories we have little to work on which we can relate to. We need our own sense of perspective when moving forwards and we do this by relating to our past emotional experiences.
Romantic memories can be a double edged sword because over the years they allow us to overanalyze past relationships and emotional situations. It is best to accept that we did what we did due to the best of our knowledge at the time. If a relationship ended badly let it go. If it was your fault, learn and grow from your mistakes and move on. If you were at the receiving end you may still be fighting for answers even years later and it often stunts our emotional development. Again the key ingredient is to try and learn and move on and perhaps form your own answers if there are none available. But bad memories must be put to rest before we are ready for new relationships.
My own romantic memories have proven a fountain of wealth over my singe years. The earliest innocent relationships remind me of the purity of being in love and being able to grow with another person. Later romantic memories allow me to understand how relationships can grow and build in a more mature sense. I never compare any relationships I have had as each must be remembered as being unique. But I can find great comfort and happiness in knowing how things can be between two people.
I find that thinking about romantic memories allows me to relax, it allows me to think of positive ideas on new dates, it allows me to not repeat mistakes and it allows me a sense of positivity and success. When you have been single for a while it is easy to think that you will never find anyone. By thinking back to romantic good-ties you should be able to reaffirm that you are a winner in romance and that you do have what it takes and that you must be patient.
Romantic memories allow us to be specific about what we are looking for in the future and what basics must be included in future partner characteristics. For example, after dating quite a few girls, I know what kind of character suits me best. I have learned how to compromise along the way, how the physical attraction is heightened exponentially by mental attraction and how being with someone in the longer term, is what life is all about.
Being single isn’t great. The only people who tell you it is are people aged 18 or people who are in bad relationships and want to get out. Yes the grass is always greener. The problem with being single is that is is essentially a lonely state of play. You have companionship through friends but you do hope of meeting someone special to share everything with. Let’s speak plainly, it is natural to want to be with someone.
The point of this short article is to stress that romantic memories are a source of strength for single people. There is absolutely no harm in looking back at previous relationships and finding sources of inspiration within. I can easily argue that we are who we have dated. The person who stands in front of the mirror today is as much the person who has dated certain people, as the food they have eaten. I think that if you are single today then try looking back on the relationships you have had to see if there are things there that can be useful as sources of optimism and fuel for the future.
If you have had mainly bad times then your memories are not romantic so ditch them and get rid of them. There is no use in looking back at what might have been. Romantic memories are only useful where they confirm a sense of love and understanding that currently you don’t have. The previous relationships are over, but the memories of good times will do a lot for you to drive you through to achieving romantic success in future.
Positive thoughts:
  • Remember the good times and work out what you learned
  • Remember what it felt like to be in love
  • Think of the lessons you have learned from your relationships
  • Decide what you like and what you don’t from these memories
  • Realize that there is nothing wrong to use past relationships as a basis for positive energy
  • Learn to look forward from the past
  • Forget trying to mentally fix past relationships - they’re over
Do allow your children to have a view of your date but do not let their views influence your own judgment. A child may be jealous of losing attention.

Instant Love on Dating

How do we know when the person we have begun to date is more than just another date on our ever-growing list of nameless faces and faceless names? After all, surely we need some identifying features to root out the wheat from the chaff. Is this person we have seen 6 of 7 times just good fun or do we really think they have the qualities to become relationship material? To answer your own question you need to know who you are looking for and what characteristics are attractive to you and then try and stick to them. If you are dating the right kind of people for you and not just filling gaps in your diary then this may get you off to a good start.


Much of what determines your commitment to your date in the first few days and weeks is a combination of intuition, extra sensory perception (feelings) and what you care to see with your own eyes. If you are desperately lonely and want to meet anyone then anyone will do and this article is irrelevant. If, however, you are more choosey which I suspect deep down you all are, then you will want to tray and detect and then reassure yourself that you haven’t just made an awful mistake.
The first thing you should do after the first couple of dates is take a step back and be honest with yourself as to how you are truly feeling. Have you been swept off your feet, are you relieved they are nice, are you blown away by their good looks, can you handle the first few peculiarities you have spotted in them and although they are cute now, will they be in 40 years. Can you see yourself with them 10 years down the line. Can you picture them older. Do they make you feel alive because before you were bored or do they make you feel alive because they are dynamite.
Do you hang on their every word, wait for the next meeting with baited breath? Do you find yourself abandoning your old routine and new horizons opening up. Can you still eat or has your appetite gone. Have you been shopping to may yourself look fresh and hot. Do you find yourself getting in at 4am from a date and do you find yourself having any sleepless nights with your mind full of excited thoughts.
Do you find yourself anxious and panicking. Do you find yourself questioning the intensity of how you are feeling. Are you finding your feelings fully reciprocated. Is there a clear sense of communication between you. Do you actually have similar opinions and tastes or do you care? Do you want to spend all your time with them now or do you find that you are worried your current lifestyle is being compromised more than you would like. Are you doing the calling or are they and how does this make you feel?
In other words, start analyzing the situation as you see it and be bold. Be critical and look at where you are finding yourself being led. If you are happy and content with all the major questions then keep going because you may have just chosen well. If you find on the other hand that you have some small niggling doubts then don’t push these thoughts away as they aren’t going anywhere, they will just become amplified over time.
The main issue is one of whether you trust your new date and whether you believe what you are being told. It is amazing how many girls I meet how say that strangely they haven’t been allowed to see where he lives, or are not quite sure what he does for a living or how much he earns or where his parents live. This isn’t an enigma factor ladies, it is a sure sign that all is not quite right. There may be some perfectly valid reasons why things are concealed from you in the first few weeks so don’t push things too far. You may not yet have earned the right to know everything about your new love. At the same time, you should feel that the possibility of finding everything important out is imminent. Evasive behavior is exactly that - untrustworthy and your alarm bells should ring.
Trusting your imagination is very important. If you can see yourself with that person in all kinds of situations then you may have chosen well. It is important to creatively imagine how you think you will be together in various scenarios, from being on vacation, to being married, to maybe having children to being older. In doing so you get a sense of how things might work out or might not. If you really can’t see yourself with them long term then maybe better to cut your losses whilst you can.
Conversation is critical in establishing if things feel right. Sex does not disguise any problems eventually although sex is a good temporary fix. If your relationship is based on sex then its great whilst it lasts but I doubt that it will last. People say that opposites attract and that is true in that you bring different experiences and opinions to the relationship but the foundation of being a great couple is on a deeper, more critical level of respect and understanding. I find that couples with similar outlooks on life do well together because they have built a support system for each other which requires little explanation. It is called a common understanding. This sometimes explains why couples from certain regions, places, or faiths have better success than the melting pot luck of a big city.
Ultimately if you compliment each other and you find that your new love brings to the relationship most of the essential qualities that you really do hold most dear then you are in a strong position for relationship success. If there are some basic flaws but you are having a good time anyway enjoy yourself but know that the person you are with is for now and not for the future.

How to do the Romance

Romance is at the heart of any dating experience. If you don’t consider yourself romantic then you are wrong. I don’t know of anyone on this planet who doesn’t have the ability to fall in love. Therefore if you can fall in love, you can be romantic too. Romance is not in the grand gestures , it is in the small details. Women will often say that it is the small things that matter. The small gestures but it is down to both men and women to start being romantic. It is a two-way process and both parties get an immense amount of pleasure from showing they care about someone.


Yes we would all love to have a romantic picnic on a deserted Caribbean beach with the person of our dreams but romance begins closer to home with tips such as these:
  • Understand what romance means and why it is important and learn what romantic aspects there are to your own character. No one has a heart made of stone, however tough their exterior.
  • Understand that romance is not the sole domain of women and that men who are romantic are far more successful when dating
  • Romance has nothing whatsoever to do with masculinity. In fact, being romantic can enhance your masculinity and reputation with girls.
  • Not all women are naturally romantic either but that doesn’t have to be the case.
  • The key to being romantic is thoughtfulness. So start being a little less thoughtless and selfish.
  • Communicate with your partner on every level and anticipate their desires and needs.
  • Look at your partner when they are talking and hold their gaze
  • Learn that mood, location, situation and ambience can heighten romance with dramatic effect
  • Phone just to say hello, I love you and surprise your partner
  • Learn to say, I love you and mean it. Don’t say it ever, if you don’t mean it
  • Send them notes and small cards telling them you are thinking of them
  • Be spontaneous and do little deeds that show you are thinking about them
  • Start going for walks together, whatever the weather
  • Put your partner first, particularly as a surprise with a spontaneous trip away
  • Think creatively and plan a surprise weekend away
  • Buy flowers any time of the year, nice ones not just roses
  • Remember birthdays, anniversaries and landmark days such as the day you first met and plan something
  • Listen to the clues your partner gives you, such as things they like and books they read and buy little gifts
  • Keep being romantic. In a good relationship, romance never ends
  • Compromise. Putting yourself first is not romantic.
  • Write him/her a letter and let them know that you love them and you mean it. People send far few letters these days. Use good quality stationery too.
  • Watch romantic movies together and invest quality time doing the things you share and both enjoy
  • Make cards rather than buying them. It shows thought and inspiration.
  • Take your partner on a picnic to the park or beach and prepare in advance without involving them. Initiative illustrates romance nicely
  • Don’t be a cold fish. Learn how to hug, cuddle and make physical contact. Touching without sex is far more romantic but don’t always hug without kissing!
  • Kiss your date and learn to appreciate the finer qualities of kissing for its own sake
  • Dance together when the occasion arises and show them special attention
  • Hold hands and do anything make your partner feel close to you
  • Hold and hug your partner in bed, especially after sex
  • Talk chat and converse about anything and everything
  • Allow your partner to breathe and do separate things to heighten the sense of romance when you are together
  • If you don’t cook dinner for your date, start learning my friend. A surprise dinner with candles is romantic
  • Buy small gifts spontaneously that show great thought in what they enjoy. But not too many otherwise it has the opposite effect
  • Remember that romance is often about giving of yourself, even if it is simply your precious time when you could have had other plans. Making your partner a priority is vital
  • Do things that make you both laugh. Laughter and romance go hand in hand
  • Remember that romance is in the small details and does not need to be expensive in any way. I’d rather receive a handmade card any day than an expensive gift
  • Anticipate your partner’s wishes and desires to show them you are listening to them and that you care
  • Expect rightfully that romance is a two-way process though the romance you provide is simply giving of yourself

First Kiss

It depends where you are sitting when reading this article. For many countries in Asia for example kissing is a private affair that almost never happens in public. I remember a Filipino guy I worked with in Singapore who was completely amazed to the point of hysteria that two men were seen kissing in public on the London tube. He simply couldn’t deal with that concept at all. I have lived in Asia for a while and it was very rare the whole time I was there to meet indigenous people who kissed openly. Indeed in Thailand it was far more common to rub noses than to ever touch lips.
Kissing is a sexual act to some degree and some societies simply do not view kissing as appropriate behavior in public. Even in the UK , overt kissing in public is often frowned upon by older members of the public, even if as a youngster its perfectly natural. Then again on a summer evening in Rome, or a city park in Paris, I would expect to see couples of every age group kissing passionately as the most natural thing in the world. It all depends on where you are you see.



In western society kissing is a pretty normal mainstream pastime and rather lovely at that. The problem occurs when we start dating and are not sure when we should kiss and to what extent. The crux appears to be that we want our first kiss with someone we like to be prefect. If we begin dating and we don’t kiss its unsettling, but if we are French Kissing (openmouthed) on day 1 the romance can dissolve too quickly. So it is a matter of waiting.
There is no definite here but it is pretty much accepted that on a first date, if it goes well then you should offer or accept a small kiss on the cheek and nothing more. This will occur when you go your separate ways and says that a basic level of attraction has been built up. The desire may be to kiss the lips off your date but hold back if you can. Anticipation is the mother of desire.
Of course by your second date, if you are both displaying all the signs of attraction then it won’t take long before you are kissing more passionately but again it depends on the situation, culture and person you are with. Find the right place and wait as long as you cam I was dating a girl in Hong Kong and waited two weeks , seeing her 4 times a week, before we kissed properly. Believe me the kiss was worth the wait because it happened at the top of the mountain above Hong Kong called The Peak set against the lightening of an electric storm. An electric kiss it surely was and totally memorable for all the right reasons.
One thing that amazes me even now is how many people can’t kiss. What I mean by that is that there are some people out there for who kissing means the oral Olympics. Having your tonsils pinned against the back of your throat by a tongue hardened like a javelin is not pleasant. The other issue seems to be people who purse their lips and make their mouth very hard when kissing. Kissing is a soft, delicate and sensual pastime savored slowly. Follow the lips of your partner and take things slowly and gently, allowing lips to brush and move so much so that they hardly touch. Kissing should make you shiver. Concentrate on the delicate corners of the mouth which are extremely sensitive and generally let the force guide you. As many woman will tell a man, kissing can be undertaken for hours and many women prefer kissing to anything else. It can be extremely sensual and sexual so don’t ignore the technique.
I remember a date once telling me that she could never kiss passionately until she was sure the man was in love with her. She felt that ‘proper’ kissing was so explicit that it was inextricably linked to sex. If she began to kiss properly she wanted to go to bed. This tell us that kissing on dates means different things to different people. Don’t expect too much at first, a kiss to some people means a great deal more to some than it may to you.
Sometimes dates will be shy and require encouragement to kiss so once you have had a few dates do take the initiative if you feel your date is being a little too shy and requires cajoling. The problem with that though is that many men are convinced they have misread the signals and dare not try and kiss in case they are wrong. This in turn can lead to a man appearing as lacking in confidence which can be critically bad. Take it from me guys, if you are on your third or fourth date and you haven’t kissed but you are getting on great you may be better taking some small initiative.
Guys should also remember that kissing does not automatically lead to any other physical contact for some time, so be patient and take things slowly.
  • Make sure you know how to kiss
  • Ensure your hygiene is spot on
  • Carry some gum if you need to freshen up
  • Floss regularly
  • Remember to kiss gently and sensitively
  • Wait until you are ready to kiss and choose your moment
  • Allow the passion of kissing to build up slowly
  • Remember that a first kiss should be memorable
  • take the initiative if your partner is shy
  • Learn the key body signals that demonstrate conclusively that your date wants to be kissed
  • Remember that good kissing can be as sensual as sex
  • Appreciate that some people do not liked to be kissed in public

Taurus Dating Connections

Taurus needs a partner who will reinforce feelings of comfort and familiarity. Taurus also needs someone who’s willing to stand on principle and, hopefully, prevent Taurus from getting stuck in a rut. Taurus can become very bossy in a one-on-one relationship, so this “my way or the highway” approach would be best met by at least as much persistence and vigor.Taurus also needs a partner who encourages deeper analysis of people’s feelings and motivations. Taurus can easily be caught in the material aspect of life, and unless someone is able to nudge Taurus into occasional encounters with emotion and spirituality, Taurus would be missing some very important aspects of life. Because Taurus is ruled by Venus, it’s especially important for this pleasure-seeking person to feel “good” about a relationship.

In general, Taurus’ stability makes for a person who is easily domesticated and an ideal marriage partner, so long as the Taurus person can be drawn away from a self-centered existence that consists mainly of keeping things just the way they are.
TAURUS WITH AIRES This relationship could turn into a rather explosive power struggle if the partners don’t take a long time to understand one another’s needs. Aries will get very frustrated by the amount of time it takes Taurus to make a decision; Taurus will feel rushed by Aries’ need to stay in perpetual motion (especially when it’s much safer to stand still). To make this work, Aries needs to understand that Taurus will accept change – but only slowly, and only when Taurus sees a direct benefit in it.

Taurus has to realize that Aries needs variety and lots of excitement to stay interested in the relationship. While Taurus responds to gifts like flowers, candy and back rubs, Aries likes to feel needed – especially in the physical sense. Taurus loves Aries’ creative approach to bedroom gymnastics, but to keep things even, Taurus will have to do a few cartwheels, too – preferably at the most surprising moments- to keep Aries’ attention.
TAURUS WITH TAURUS
A relationship between two Taurus people can be very satisfying as long as they both are happy to stay in one place. It’s very unlikely that either of these two will want to venture far from familiar territory, whether that means their little neighborhood or the safety zone they build up around their emotions. This couple would fight over sharing, both in terms of money and domestic chores. Taurus is not the first one to jump into doing jobs around the house, so a lot of things could be left undone, or at least until one of them could no longer stand it. Although Taurus people are practical, they’re also very attuned to their senses, and they like to relax. This couple could enjoy a highly sensual experience in bed, but they’ll enjoy their sex life more if they actively seek out ways of injecting variety into their routine. When one partner notices the other going that extra mile, the feeling of being loved that is so important to the Taurus will help the affection to last a lifetime.
TAURUS WITH GEMINI
This couple could have some difficulty, mainly due to the way that Gemini will perceive Taurus as being too domineering and Taurus will see Gemini as being too flighty. Taurus has fixed ways of carrying out life’s little routines, and is more than eager to impose order on someone who seems to be a lot more scattered. Gemini needs a lot of freedom, so that there must be room for outside friendships within the relationship. Taurus could become upset about Gemini not “being there” at important times, while Gemini will feel confined by Taurus’ attempts to dictate what the two will do as a couple. If each of them can find ways to understand one another’s basic needs, this relationship can be successful. Taurus can steady Gemini while Gemini can encourage Taurus to try new things. The exchange of sympathy will be the key to this couple’s sex life, too. Taurus will have to listen to Gemini talk about what will be a turn-on, while Gemini will have to accept Taurus’ needs to be introduced to new and exciting ways of reaching new heights of sexual satisfaction.
TAURUS WITH CANCER
This combination is a very favorable one. Taurus is extremely easy to domesticate, and Cancer’s goal in life is to find a partner that can provide a secure and reliable home base. Taurus likes to have someone to cater to every need and impulse, and Cancer’s happiness can be derived from pleasing a partner through tender loving care. If there are many quarrels, they might stem from Taurus’ impatience with Cancer’s overly emotional reactions or Taurus’ lack of concern for Cancer’s feelings. Both partners will have to strive to recognize that they have found things in one another that they each need to counterbalance their own personality traits. If Taurus is allowed to provide Cancer with security, and Cancer is allowed to help Taurus access and experience emotions on a deeper level, this match can last a long time. Sexually, Taurus will try to help Cancer derive pleasure from physical contact, while Cancer will encourage Taurus to experience the sexual union on an emotional level.
TAURUS WITH LEO
These two contrasting personalities can actually build a very satisfying relationship. Taurus’ practical approach can ground Leo’s tendency to dramatize the most mundane events. Taurus will also get vicarious pleasure out of Leo’s antics, and Leo will be grateful to have Taurus to depend on. This couple is likely to fight over money and what it is to be spent on. The Taurus person will always want to have some resources to hold on to in the event of a rainy day. The Leo will have a more flamboyant approach, and is likely to see Taurus as being miserly. Both are extremely fixed, so the power struggle between the two is likely to be intense. This pair will tend to see things the same way, and they will be slow to take action as a couple. Fortunately for Taurus, Leo will have the energy needed to make a move long before it’s occurred to Taurus that one day it will be too late. In bed, Leo will delight in Taurus’ ability to appeal to the senses, while Taurus will be enlivened by Leo’s fiery approach to the mating ritual.
TAURUS WITH VIRGO
This is an excellent combination that can last a lifetime if the two partners are considerate of one another’s feelings. The earthy energy of these two signs connects well, so they work together effectively on practical matters. In terms of love, they both have the tendency to allow the initial passion mellow out and turn into a relationship that features the kind of affection one has for a friend. This will help them to avert fights, since they will not be so guarded about their emotional sides that they are unable to express and accept one another’s needs. However, when it comes to sex, this couple’s flame can quickly be dampened by complacency on both partners’ parts. Taurus, although sensual, could stand to develop more creativity in bed, while Virgo needs a lot of stimulation to keep the desire to have sex alive. A playful attitude about their sex life will help these two sustain their relationship over the long haul.
TAURUS WITH LIBRA
At first glance, it would seem like these two would make an ideal couple, and they do in fact have many things in common. Both Taurus and Libra appreciate the finer things in life, and they are able to sustain a relationship based upon the things that they both enjoy. But there are some differences, too. Taurus is more preoccupied with possessions than Libra is, and Libra is more focused on physical appearance that Taurus is. This can lead to conflicts over money, as Taurus is very protective and Libra can be quite extravagant. Libra might also be disappointed by Taurus’ tendency toward self-interest. Libra needs to have someone around all the time, and there will be moments when Taurus wants to be left alone to enjoy a sensual experience in solitude. In bed, this relationship can be very exciting, especially if Taurus remembers to lavish compliments on Libra. In return, Libra should be prepared to give Taurus a lot of physical attention. Back rubs, slow, sensuous foreplay and a sexually suggestive ambiance are all effective tools Libra can use to keep Taurus coming back for more.
TAURUS WITH SCORPIO
In this match-up, both Taurus and Scorpio meet their perfect match. Because they are opposite signs, these two compliment one another quite well. Taurus has the practical means to provide a secure material home base, and Scorpio can help Taurus handle some of the less obvious interpersonal situations that could potentially threaten it. Both signs are extremely protective, and both will wait a long while before making any major changes. However, when engaged in a lover’s quarrel, these two can easily stand up to one another where most of the other signs would retreat out of fear or explode in anger. Because both of these signs are so set in their ways, they are likely to stay in one residence and move infrequently, if ever, during the course of their relationship. Sexually, Scorpio helps Taurus to explore new territory when it comes to the true expression of intimacy, while Taurus gives Scorpio a run for the money in terms of sexual appetite and endurance.
TAURUS WITH SAGITTARIUS
This couple could have some interesting times together. They would get along quite well as friends, but they might have some trouble seeing eye to eye when it comes to the demands of long-term partnership. The potential for trouble stems from the fact that Taurus is intent on staying on one place and Sagittarius has difficulty staying in one place for long. There must be enough give-and take between the two for them to be able to get their individual needs satisfied. If this couple can work hard enough to stay together, they will find that their differences will enrich each of them. Taurus will get up and go more places and learn new things, and Sagittarius will be able to establish a sense of security that brings new meaning to the words “coming home”. Sexually, Taurus will enjoy the wild ride Sagittarius gives so freely, while Sagittarius will be intrigued by Taurus’ ability to know what feels good and do something about it.
TAURUS WITH CAPRICORN
This is a harmonious union, as each of these signs is rooted in the idea of attaining material security and supplying it to others. Taurus will see Capricorn’s success as a way of supplementing Taurus’ own ability to acquire material goods, while Capricorn will see Taurus as a safe and reliable partner. The fights between these two will be few, but when they erupt, it will be Taurus that will have to give in to Capricorn’s demands more often. Although it will be difficult, Taurus will have to admit that Capricorn is even more practical, and therefore, probably right. Sexually, this can be an extremely creative couple. Although neither Taurus nor Capricorn seems to be overly sexy on the surface, once they get behind closed doors, that earthy energy can really connect and create some explosive passion.
TAURUS WITH AQUARIUS
This pair can be very compatible, even though it might take each of them some time before they realize it. Taurus starts off the relationship appealing to Aquarius’ desire to enlighten Taurus with a more global view. Aquarius, meanwhile, is intrigued by Taurus’ ability to enjoy life’s simple pleasures, as well as Taurus’ impulse to share resources and affection. The couple may fight when Aquarius’ desire to take care of the larger community conflicts with Taurus’ need to protect the couple’s own possessions and resources. As long as Aquarius can find other sources of funding for projects that benefit the community, Taurus will support these projects with modest material contributions and large shows of emotional support. In bed, these two have much to learn from one another. Taurus will make Aquarius experience sex more on the level of feelings, while Aquarius will provoke Taurus into thinking more about how the couple can please one another in bed.
TAURUS WITH PISCES
This is a good match because Taurus is a good and stable provider, while Pisces is in need of such a source of stability. Taurus may initially be attracted to Pisces because of this need. However, Pisces has some very valuable things to offer a Taurus partner. Pisces’ ability to visualize things as they should be (as opposed to the way they are) will help Taurus to be more creative. And it goes without saying that Pisces’ love of the arts will give Taurus a stronger appreciation for things that can be admired as well as experienced. In bed, this can be a very pleasant combination. Taurus’ sensuality can combine with Pisces deep emotions to create the kind of lovemaking where the partners lose themselves in one another. As long as Taurus doesn’t become overbearing, this relationship can be a beautiful experience for both partners.